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When A Cat Lays On You

She Makes Biscuits On You

When cats are especially content, they exhibit a behavior called kneading, or making biscuits. This is when cats push their paws in and out on a soft surface, pulling lightly with their claws, in an alternating left/right pattern. This is likely a left-over behavior from kittenhood, when kittens use this motion to stimulate milk flow from their mother cat. Cats likely do this in the presence of their favorite humans because they see their humans as their parents.

Another theory of why cats make biscuits is that this is simply another way for cats to leave their scent on their favorite things and people to claim them as their own. Either way, if your cat kneads on you, it means they really need you!

Is there anything more adorable than a purring kitten?


Your Lap Is A Cat Bed

Do you watch television with a cat snoozing on your lap? Do you usually have a purry companion in bed with you at night? If your cat likes to sleep on or next to you, then you are a most beloved cat owner.

My tiny 3-pound foster kitten, Smoochie, runs to sleep on my chest or in my lap the moment I sit down. And my big 16-pound cat, Lovey, isnt happy unless hes snoozing on my hip. I always have a few furry companions in bed with me all night. In fact, the first face I see in the morning is usually that of my BooBoo kitty.

The look of love. Via 

Your Cat Nibbles You A Lot

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One less common sign of a cat’s fondness is habitual nibbling or soft biting.

According to Care2, a cat will sometimes deliver agentle, tickling bite to those it loves. This is definitely distinguishable from a real bite, as one hurts and the other doesn’t. If your cat is using you as a chew toy, it could be a sign that you guys are best buddies.

Your Cat Brings You Gifts

Though they might not be the sort of things you’d put on your wishlist, your cat may bring you gifts like dead mice, frogs, bugs, or trash because they feel at home with you.

“Many people think that these ‘gifts’ are for the owner, but cats actually bring them home to where they feel secure. It’s a sign that they feel safe with you,” Trevorrow explains to Cosmopolitan.

Her Tail Twitches When She Sees You

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You can tell a lot about a cats mood by their tail. When cats are particularly happy, they will hold their tail up high with the tip of their tail twitching slightly. Just make sure they arent swishing their tail back and forth quickly, which indicates agitation rather than contentment.

If your cat approaches you with her tail held high, twitching the end ever so slightly, she is happy to see you. Cats are happiest when they are near their favorite people.

Cats can be just as affectionate toward their owners as dogs.


To Mark Their Territory

Firstly, dont forget that cats are wild animals who are used to having to stake out their territory. Lying on your stuff is a way of claiming the spot. And the higher up it is, the better, as this is where they would hide in the wild hence why your laptop or notepad is more appealing than the desk itself. Youll notice your cat will mark your stuff by rubbing its face and paws on it to transfer their pheromones.

#7kneading Or Making Biscuits

There are competing theories about why exactly cats knead. One theory holds that adult cats forever associate kneading with the comfort of nursing , so when a cat kneads near her human, it shows she is relaxed and comfortable with her family. If thats not love, what is? And when that kneading happens on your lap and is accompanied by purring and an intense, searching gaze, you know you have one content cat on your hands!

Why Do Cats Loaf Or Tuck Their Paws Under Them

Your cat might often tuck their paws under their stomach, making them look like a cuddly and cute loaf of bread. But besides looking cute, what does it mean? Cats do this when they are feeling safe and comfortableif they’re sitting like this, they probably think that they don’t need to use their claws anytime soon! They also sit in such a way to conserve body heat. If you see your cat sitting like a loaf, it is definitely a good sign!

Generally speaking, a cat who is lying with their paws tucked underneath them is considered relaxed. They arent preparing to defend themselves or run away.

Mikel Delgado, Postdoctoral Fellow at the School of Veterinary Medicine at UC Davis

Your Cat Is Trying To Claim You

If youre asking the question what does it mean when a cat lays on you in hopes of receiving a positive, adorable answer such as it means they adore you, you may be in for a surprise. Some cats lay on their owners in an effort to claim them for themselves. Thats right, the more you let your cat sit on your chest, the more you are in their possession! Come to think of it, that is adorable.

You may have seen cats do this with other objects as well, such as their cat toys, couches, and beds, even your clothes. Its no wonder why felines do this theyre very , after all. By lying and sitting on things , cats are covering them with their scent, which in a way, is claiming them as their own.

Signs Your Cat Actually Loves You

Heres a list of 9 signs your cat actually loves you:

1. Your cat brings you their presents

Not for the faint of heart, when your cat brings you their kill it is actually meant as a present even though its a present you wont want to touch with your bare hands. Cats are natural hunters, so when they bring you these gifts they are trying to show you what they can offer you. Think of it as a love token, even if the sight of a dead bird/rodent makes you squeal.

2. Your kitty will flash you their tummy

Like most animals, cats do not show their stomachs to just anyone. If your cat rolls over on its back to give you a flash of that fuzzy belly, this is an indication that they feel comfortable around you. And not only this, but they feel loved and protected by you, rendering themselves defenseless while on their backs. Cats are prideful animals, so if they do this for you they have no concerns letting their guard down when in your presence.

3. Your cat has a thing for head butting you

Although you would never think of this as a friendly gesture with a human, to receive a head butt from a cat is a pretty big deal. When your cat shares this special privilege with you, they are actually depositing facial pheromones on to you. These serve to represent their feelings, and their possession towards you, as if they are leaving traces of their scent to claim you with.

4. Love bites but hopefully not too hard!

5. Following/Lingering around wherever you are

What A Cats Tail Tells You

  • If the tail is high, relaxed, and waving: The cat is relaxed, happy, confident.
  • If the tail is trailing behind body but not held low: The cat is relaxed but alert.
  • If the tail is held low: The cat is cautious; it may be looking for a safe place, especially if the body is also held low to the ground.
  • If the tail is bristled: The cat is fearful or aggressive; other body cues will tell you which.

Why Do Cats Follow You To The Bathroom

They know the routine: when youre sitting on the potty youre not going anywhere for a while. Many cats love to curl up on their persons lap on the toilet. They have your undivided attention for a certain amount of time: youre not working, or cooking, or knitting, or reading a book, or watching TV.

Your Soothing Sounds And Scents

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Your cat finds the natural sounds of your body incredibly soothing when they sleep on top of you. The steady rhythm of your heartbeat as well as the rise and fall of your inhaling and exhaling helps lull them to sleep. Your smell is also pleasant as your cat associates it with you and the care, companionship, and safety you provide them.


It May Mean They Have A Mischievous Intent

Cats may also lay on their backs to invite you for playtime with a mischievous twist. They may be in a feisty and naughty mood when they are on their backs but be cautious and try to decipher their body language just to be sure.  If you see your cats tail flicking back and forth rapidly it may mean she is open for playtime and not petting time. They may also bring their tails between their legs and bellies to bite and paw at. 

Check if your cats eyes are glowing and following your every move as it may mean you are targeted as her signal for playtime.  If this is so, make sure not to put your hands near her and do not give her belly rubs. What you can do is to bring out and stuffed animals that your cat can play with.

Are There Ways To Teach Your Cat To Not Sleep In Your Bed With You Without Locking Them Out Of Your Room

Delgado recommends a few different options for helping your cat sleep in a separate room from you.

  • You can try a heated pet bed so they can get a little extra heat while sleeping.
  • Help them settle down for the night by playing with them followed by a large dinner. Having a full belly can make them sleepy and theyll be happier to plop down on the couch instead of your bed.
  • You can set up an automatic feeder for particularly restless cats to dispense a small amount of food every 1-2 hours throughout the night. This will keep your cat watching the machine instead of barging into your room and running up and down your bed.
  • Setting up some early morning distractions can help too. Try setting up a bird feeder outside a window your cat likes to sit by so they can watch Bird TV in the morning so they dont wake you up at 4 in the morning to be fed.

Arched Back With Fur Standing On End

If you see your cat with an arched back it could indicate fear and she may have sensed danger.  She will make herself appear larger and her fur will stand on end. This is called piloerection or the raising of hair along the neck and back. It is a form of defense and is an indication that the cat has detected something in the environment that she sees as a threat. It also means your cat is ready to strike. 

If You Want Your Cat To Love You Play Hard To Get

As a cat owner, your impulse may be to immediately cuddle with your buddy. But Delgado recommends letting your cat take charge of interactions. We know from research that cats actually prefer to be the one to approach you. And if you let them make the first move, you’ll have a better interaction,” Delgado says.

Over time, Delgado adds, your cat will trust you more, because you respect its limits. This dynamic explains why people who are allergic to cats tend to complain that cats love them. “They’re totally avoiding the catand the cat is like, Ooh, I want to sit on that person because they’re not being pushy.

But Short Amounts Of Time Are Best

Even if its tempting to allow your adorable cat to sleep on your chest all night, its probably not a good idea.

If you shift unconsciously in your sleep, you may startle your cat. Their response may sometimes be to hold on with their claws, which can be somewhat of a shock if you were in a deep sleep! You also dont want to roll over onto your cat if theyve shifted to sleeping beside you in the night.

You might also find that you cant drop off into a deep sleep with your cat on your chest. Trying to breathe properly with a heavy cat on your chest can become uncomfortable after a while, especially if your cat is a large breed like a Maine Coon. Broken sleep isnt going to leave you feeling refreshed in the morning.

Sleeping in such close proximity to your cat may also trigger allergies as you inhale dander and fur that can cause breathing problems.

If you want to recreate that warm secure feeling for your cat when youre not at home or trying to get a good nights sleep, consider investing in a heated cat bed for them instead.

#5visiting You For Nighttime Cuddles

Your best feline friend can be a secretive creature and will often not want to show his affections for his human to anyoneincluding you. As a result, your best cuddle session may just happen when you are fast asleep. You may be drooling and your hair might be a real mess, but your cat is using this time to express his love on his own terms. Just because you arent awake to share in it, doesnt diminish its significance. Your cat coming to you in the night and sitting on your chest, face, or side is a sure-fire sign that she loves you.

Cats Communicate With Their Eyes

  • If the eyes are wide: The cat is alert. Other cues will tell you if the cat is relaxed or threatened.
  • If the eyes are narrowed: The cat is alert, but may be fearful or aggressive. Look for other cues.
  • If the eyes are lazily open or closed: The cat is relaxed.
  • Pupil dilation is also important: Wide pupils can signal high interest, excitement, or possibly fear or aggression.

She Shows You Her Fluffy Tummy

Why Does My Cat Sleep on Me?

Cats dont expose their tummies to just anyone! If your cat is laying or rolling on the floor with her tummy up, she is vulnerable. She will only get into this position when she feels safe and trusts you. Cats show their tummy when they feel protected and loved.

She may also be trying to entice you to play. Cats know that no human can resist petting a fluffy kitty belly. Be careful if you try to pet her tummy, however, as it is likely to be a trap!

Cats only headbutt their best friends.


Your Cat Is Calming Down

And what about cats that purr at the veterinary hospital? Well, that seems to have a logical reason, too.

Cats are thought to use purring as a mechanism for self-calming and stress reductionsort of the kitty version of repeating a mantra to keep calm.

Frightened cats are often seen to be purring almost to themselves. You might see this in shelters where cats are scared and anxious.

Why Does My Cat Sleep Between My Legs

For your cat, sleeping between your legs is pretty much the same as sleeping in a hammock is to you super-comfy, safe and soothing. Your legs create a sort of a shielded place where your kitty can safely nap and sleep for as long as they like. Of course, in reality, they cannot sleep like this for a long time simply because theres a chance of you kicking them in your sleep! For this reason, its best to let your cat sleep between your legs only while youre awake .

Cats Lay On You For Love And Bonding

Cats can be very affectionate. Sometimes they’ll figure out what time you come home from work and be waiting at the door for you, wanting pets and scritches. They may bump you with their heads, rub against your legs, or meow for a snuggle. Some cats follow their owners from room to room like a little duckling. And they may lay on you out of love too.

There’s also a social bonding element at play. Some cats yearn for snuggles and cuddles, which is why you might see two cats sleeping together or lying on each other. That same bonding translates to humans too.

They Want To Be Close But No Petting

Even the most loving cats wont always want to be pet. If your cat is sleeping on your legs while you are awake and watching television, there is a good chance its there because it wants to be by you but doesnt want you to touch it. It stays out of reach and will have plenty of time to react if you try to reach out for it.

Why Do Cats Lay On You

If you imagine kittens sleeping together, then it may make sense that cats like cuddling. When cats are born, they pile together. Think of a basket of kittens, says cat behaviorist, Dr. Marci Koski of Feline Behavior Solutions in Vancouver, Washington. Theyre warm and secure and the scent is there. Its natural theyd seek out their family members to sleep with.

Laying on you also provides cats with a sense of security. As predators, theres a natural sense of safety to sleep near others in their family for protection. When theyre asleep, theyre vulnerable. They want to sleep in a safe area. So, what could be safer than sleeping between their human persons legs? says Koski. Plus, the bed smells like you. Smells are important to cats. It helps them feel secure.

Koski also explains that cats sleep on humans because they want to get warm. She says that it comes down to a cats thermoneutral zone, which is a temperature range where the body doesnt need to expend energy to heat or cool itself. In humans, the thermoneutral zone ranges between 64-72 degrees but for cats its 86-100 degrees.

Cats really like heat, she says. At night, they seek out the warmest spots, so theyll often seek their human companions.

Its Tail Is Always Twitching At The Tip Or Curled Around Your Leg

A cat’s tail reveals a lot about its mood. Though a bushy tail, upright hair, and arched back is a signal that a cat feels threatened, an erect and swishy tail can mean that it feels confident and happy in your presence, according to WebMD.

A tail curled around your leg or arm is also a sign of friendship and affection.

Theyre Looking For Security

Cats are always ready to attack or defend themselves, so even when your cat appears to be out cold, theyre actually still on high alert for any noises or smells that mean they need to spring into action and attack. However, sleeping is their most vulnerable state.

Since cats are always poised for action, it makes sense that theyd seek extra protection by curling up next to their owner, says Mikel Delgado, cat behavior expert with . You may give your cat an extra level of security during sleep, a time when theyre most vulnerable.

If your cat sleeps near you it means that they trust you and they feel secure with you by their side. Here are some other .

Why Do Cats Sit On You They Crave Connection

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Cats gravitate toward people they like, and they seek connection with their favorite people, Marilyn adds. Sometimes theyre seeking , because people often pet the cat on their lap. Petting resembles their moms grooming, so most cats love receiving petting from their favorite people. Some cats also knead while they sit on someones lap. When theyre , theyre simulating their neo-natal days when they did that to their mothers to stimulate milk flow. It can be a self-comforting behavior, as can , Marilyn says.

Cat Voices: What Does A Meow Or Purr Mean

Meow: Cats tend to use meows more with humans than with other cats, though there are exceptions. To communicate with each other, they use a range of vocal signals, and some cats will use meows in this case, too. Kittens mew loudly when theyre hungry or frightened, but once theyve stopped being dependent on their mother, they also stop this kind of calling behavior. When you hear your cat meowing, it is generally talking to youso pay attention!

Hiss: This is fear and threat. The cat is saying, Back off. Depending on how confident the cat feels or whether it is in its own territory, it may fight or run. You can use the hiss to tell your cat to stop doing somethingthis will get its attention and usually stop the behavior.

Yowl: This is a step up from the hiss and is definitely a threat. The sound is wow-wow-wow, but modulated: woOOOowwwoooOOOoowwwooOOOoow, with the middle of each wow rising both in pitch and volume. A cat making this sound is getting ready to fight and may scratch if you try to touch it. Use the yowl to move a strange cat off your property. Yowling can also indicate discomfort or emotional upset. A smothered or muffled yowl may indicate a hairball coming up.

Occasionally, a cat will insert a trilling sound into the purr. You usually hear this when youre holding and petting the cat, not when the cat is simply purring to itself or another cat. This is referred to as singing.

Cats Look For Security

In the wild, a cat will seek the safest place to rest in between hunts. In the home, that place is with you.

Cats are typically at the top of the food chain, but even still, they have to keep a watchful eye out for danger, explains Dr. Zay Satchu, the Chief Veterinary Officer at Bond Vet in NYC. Being around their humans, they can rest easier knowing there is some safety there.

Sleep is a vulnerable time, so your cat is indicating that he trusts you and feels content and secure with you. This behavior begins in kittenhood.

Cats are raised in litters, and when theyre very young until theyre about 12 weeks of age, sleeping usually means piling onto one another near mom, says Dr. Satchu. Its how they are raised during their peak socialization weeks and similar to other things they learn during this time, this translates into lifelong habits.

Your cat sleeps with you for comfort and security. After their mother, youre the next best thing.

Do Cats Like Being Pet On The Stomach

Typically cats dont like being pet on their stomach. While there may be some exceptions to the rule, as there are with everything, hating tummy rubs is the common theme among our feline friends. 

If youve ever tried to pet a cat on their stomach, youve probably also felt the wrath. My cats will let it happen once then wrap their legs around your arm and start to kick and bite to get you away. Exposing their bellies makes them extremely vulnerable, so having that space touched puts them feel like they need to protect themselves.

The hair on a cats belly also tends to be a bit more sensitive. So when youre scratching their bellies, they become overstimulated and want you to stop. Even though it seems like your cat is asking for a belly rub, resist the urge. Just stick with giving them a nice pet on their face. Theyll appreciate that much more!

Overall, there are tons of reasons why your cat likes to lay on their back. Feel a sense of happiness when you see your cat exposing their bell, as its most likely a sign to say they love you, and you are their trusted human!

What Does It Mean When Your Cat Lays On Your Back

There are multiple reasons why your cat may choose to lay on your back. They may like laying on you because theyre trying to stay warm. Just like how they like to lay in the sun, they know they can warm up with the heat that comes off your body. 

Some cats feel more secure when theyre laying on you. Most cats will view their owner as their safe place and protector. Youre their safe place. They feel comfortable knowing youre there to protect them if any danger arises. 

It may just be that they want to show you they love you. Cats tend to be big on giving their owners affection. This is one way they can cuddle up with you and show how much they care about you. 


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